In Psychology, it is now well known, that the ‘personality’ is
actually made up many different aspects, or ‘sub-personalities’. You and
I don’t have just one personality. The personality is actually a
collection of subpersonalities. Each subpersonality has its own identity
and individuality….and in a way you already know this. This is how all healthy people really are.
You can see this multitude of different subpersonalities or selves in
your own life, right now. The way you relate to your children is
different to the way you relate to your parents. The way you relate to
your boss is different to the way you relate when you are out
socialising with friends. The energy you feel when you are making love
is different to the one you express when you are playing sport or
studying for an exam and so on….
Haven’t you found this to be true in your life?
Most people, through their upbringing, get locked into and limited
by, a small group of these subpersonalities. They express only a tiny
percentage of themselves. This is almost inevitable in a modern
“civilised” society, where we all have to deal with a large variety of
circumstances every day at home, school, work and socially. And this
small group of subpersonalities, whether you are aware of them or not,
create your whole life experience…. Your patterns in relationship with
others, your inner feelings and emotions, your leisure activities, your
career and financial realities, your health, creative expression, etc.
If your life’s experiences are not playing out in the way you want, it
is no use only looking for an outside cause. It is vital to consider the
workings of the subpersonalities within your mind. Using affirmations, visualizations and the many other personal growth
techniques is fine. However without knowledge of your subpersonalities,
it is very tough to make a relationship, & other areas of your life
work. It is a fascinating and mind expanding experience that you will
remember for years to come, and which could be the turning point in your
life and journey. Learn about your system and how to manage it to achieve your best.